Desire is Stopping You From Manifesting | Release What is Not For You

Have you ever wondered why your dreams and goals seem just out of reach, despite your best efforts to visualize and believe? Join me, Dr. Norma Reyes, as we unlock the true power of desire in the manifestation process. Through my personal journey, like the time I decided to run a half marathon, I highlight how a strong desire ignites the passion and energy needed to move toward your dreams. 

If you've been feeling stuck or unsure why your manifestations aren't coming to life, it might be time to reassess if your desires align with your true passions. Tune in as we explore how desire fuels our actions and ultimately leads to the life you envision.

Feeling overwhelmed by the daily grind and disconnected from your true self? Get ready to tap into your higher self and manifest the life you've always wanted. 

My aim is to empower you to release frustration and embrace the creative force within you. Reach out to me on Instagram for a discovery call, and let's embark on this transformative journey together. Your dream life is closer than you think, and I'm here to help you every step of the way.

Chapters

• 0:20 The Power of Desire in Manifesting
• 15:40 Guidance and Connection to Higher Self

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:20

Hey everyone, welcome back to the Manifesting Latina podcast. Today I am not having an intro or an outro. My podcast editor is taking a bit of a break, but I wanted to get a podcast episode out to you all. So welcome back to the Manifesting Latina podcast with me, your host, dr Norma Reyes, and today I will be talking to you all about desire.

Speaker 1: 0:50

If you've been listening for a while, you know that I've been talking about belief, desire and vibration as the keys to manifesting. If you're brand new to this podcast, know that those three things belief, desire, vibration are what you need to manifest everything that you want to bring into your life, with belief and desire being the most important, and I often describe them as a triangle, with belief and desire being the bottom two bases and vibration being the pinnacle. So desire and belief. I often talk a lot about belief and building belief in yourself, and the spiritual and manifesting community often doesn't focus on the desire that much, because everyone may believe, or some people may believe, that if you are wanting to manifest something then you must desire it, but the truth is that might not be the case. So, while I know, I have also fallen into the trap sometimes to really focus on belief, but desire is so important because it is the spark. So if a belief is like the foundation, then desire is that like spark that just lights you up, that wakes you up and makes you want to be like doing the thing that you need to do, which is the vibration and alignment that you need to do to be able to manifest what you are wanting to manifest right. It sounds so simple. So in today's episode, I will be discussing how desire, or the lack of desire, is keeping you from manifesting what you want, keeping you from manifesting what you want. So, again, you need a strong belief and a strong desire to be in alignment, which means to be in the right vibration to manifest what you want.

Speaker 1: 2:57

So if you have 100 or 1000% belief in yourself to have, be or do something right the thing that you are wanting to manifest into your reality then it's time to look at your level of desire for what you have decided to manifest into your life. For example, if you have 100% belief in your ability to manifest whatever it is that you are trying to bring into your reality, let's pretend like it's a new job and you're doing all the things you need to do? You're on LinkedIn, you're networking, you're updating your resume a thousand times, right, which that falls into vibration, taking a line to action, right, which that falls into vibration, taking a line to action. But if it hasn't manifested in any results whatsoever, then it's time to kind of check in with yourself. Do you really want a new job, right? What is your level of desire for the thing that you are wanting to manifest? Is it at a 10, or is it a two and anything under a five? You're not really sure about that desire, and today's episode I'm going to help you and this is what I help my clients with to really connect with their true desires so that they can start manifesting the dream life that they are desiring and you too, of course. You too listening.

Speaker 1: 4:28

So, when you are trying to manifest something and my example is a new job ask yourself do I truly desire this? Do I truly desire a new job? And if the answer isn't a hell yes, or a resounding whole body, yes, then it's time to dig in a little more right into that. What is going on here? It's time to start to look at your desire for the thing that you are manifesting. Is what you are working to manifest too small. What you are working to manifest too small, maybe it's not sparking you up because you really don't desire to just move up one level. Maybe you don't even desire to stay in the field that you're in or whatever it is that you're manifesting. Maybe you're manifesting a house and you really aren't interested in manifesting a house in the area you've been looking in.

Speaker 1: 5:29

So, again, it's time to look at what your desire, your level of desire, is into what you are manifesting. So if it's not sparking you up, it's not lighting you up, then it could be too small, no-transcript. Then you would then notice the difference because you would wake up and move about your day accordingly. So, for example, if you have a high desire, then you would start doing the things you need to do in a high vibration, not a oh, my God, I got to do this, not a oh, you know, if I don't do this, then it's not going to happen. So, for example, less than three weeks ago, or I should say in less than two weeks from today, less than three weeks, geez, what am I saying? Please forgive me what I meant to say this past Sunday, and in less than three weeks I have a half marathon that I just literally decided this past Sunday that I was going to run.

Speaker 1: 6:47

It has changed my whole energy. I've gotten up taking care of what I need to take care of in the morning make sure that I'm dressed bam, going to go do my run, going to go do my workout. A month ago I didn't have this kind of motivation, and it's not the fact that it's a half marathon, it's not a fact that I had a desire to do that, because I could have simply signed up sooner if that was the case. I had a desire when something shifted in my reality, and the shift was that I had a client tell me that it was the last rock and roll in San Antonio, where I'm from, where I live, and I'm like I got to do it. My desire was 100,000%, and so then my belief in myself is already 100,000%, because this is not the first half marathon that I run. It's going to be like my eighth or my ninth. So I have 100,000% belief in myself to be able to run this.

Speaker 1: 7:44

I have a strong desire, and so the fact that it's less than three weeks away didn't faze me. And I am moving and to have this bigger energy about myself. That isn't just affecting my running, isn't just affecting my running, it isn't just affecting my training, it's affecting my whole life. I am making sure that I am dressed Not just that I'm making sure I'm being dressed, but that I feel good in what I'm wearing. And if you've been watching my Instagram, if you've been watching my stories, you can see my energy shift in doing something that I desire, something outside of my everyday things that I normally do right Running my business, running my podcast, running, you know, taking care of it around after the kids, the home, and all of these different things that are not giving me the spark that I needed to be able to show up the way I would like. So all that new energy is trickling down to those around me.

Speaker 1: 8:45

My husband is not motivated to get back to his own fitness goals and he's coming home during lunch doing different things. Also, when he comes home after work, he isn't just like, oh my God, like I'm so tired, I don't want to deal with the kids, but instead it's just kind of having a pep in his step, in alignment with his highest version of himself, spending intentional time with the kids. You know, today he came home for lunch. I was in a session. He was working out, he went to go take a shower and I'm like, oh, you know what, I want to make him lunch because I know he hasn't ate yet, and so not something I have not done. And you know, he comes out and he was trying to tell me to open a can of tuna for him and I'm like, no, you know, I'm going to make you some, some ground beef and rice. And he was saying that he actually was wanting that. So he, like you know, he energetically aligned and he literally manifested a lunch that he desired.

Speaker 1: 9:47

And that is how energy and this is the difference between when something lights you up and when something doesn't right when your desire is strong, it is not only going to affect you, it's not only going to affect the thing you're trying to manifest, it's going to light up everything around you. You're literally going to be in alignment, right? So belief, desire, vibration. Again, if what you are wanting to manifest into your reality isn't lighting you up, it won't matter how much you're doing, and what will probably happen is that you are going to burn out. You are going to have big feelings of frustration and resentment, which will then become entitlement. You might even start saying like I've been doing X, y, z and I still haven't manifested this. I should already have this by now and all of that is entitlement. And it may even lead you to then starting to say manifesting doesn't work all of these things that make you spiral.

Speaker 1: 11:09

So if you've been doing all the things and you really really believe in yourself, it's time to be honest with yourself, truly honest with yourself, and asking yourself am I really wanting to manifest this, whatever you're trying to manifest, or is it for someone else? Is this a societal expectation that has been placed on me, making me believe that I need to be making X amount of money by a certain age, or that you're not successful if you haven't moved into a leadership position? Ask yourself is this an expectation that someone else or even you have set on yourself? What if it's an ego expectation or an expectation from your family that has been set on you since you were five years old, the expectation that you were going to do something by a certain age and you don't have a desire for it, but it has become this thing that you need to do, for whatever reason, if this desire, the thing that you are trying to manifest is not coming from you and it's not something you truly desire for yourself, then it's just not going to manifest because it's not in alignment with you, it is not in vibration with you and it's not meant for you.

Speaker 1: 12:42

No matter how hard you try Now, this doesn't mean that you won't ever manifest it, because some people will stay stuck trying to manifest something for a year, two years, five years, 10 years, just stuck because you have a belief that you should receive something, because you're doing X, y, z. When you are in that type of energy, you're not really desiring what you want to manifest Now. You might be like but I truly do desire this, and this is why I need you to reflect, and this is why I need you to reflect. Reflect on whether it is truly what you desire or is it an expectation? Or are you wanting something bigger? Like, are you wanting to change job fields and get a new job in a new job field, but you're too scared. So instead of doing that thing that actually seems exciting, you're scaling back and showing up smaller and doing all the things to stay, you know, to get a new job within your field, but it doesn't really spark you up, so it's not in alignment, it's not in vibration with you. So perhaps you just need to tweak your goal to spark that inspiration with yourself.

Speaker 1: 14:12

And one of the best ways to connect with your desires is by simply making time to connect with your higher self. There's a variety of ways you can do this Journaling, meditation, yoga. Those are all times and moments where you can then begin to connect with your higher self, and this is something that I teach my clients to do to connect with their higher self so that they know what they should be doing next versus what they expect themselves to be doing. Because when you are taking this time to connect with your higher self, you are connecting with the best version of yourself that is connected to the desire part of you that is wise and is ready to provide you with the inner guidance you've been seeking. You didn't come into this life just to manifest more things. You came to create a life that you desire at a soul level. You are a soul in a human body, and when you incarnated into this life, you had a strong desire to create the life of your dreams. I'm gonna let that sit there a life of your dreams.

Speaker 1: 15:29

You listen to this podcast because you are aspiring to create that life for yourself, and the wisdom is within you.

Speaker 1: 15:40

It's time for you to connect with your higher self. So, if you're ready, I'm here. I'm here to help you, to be your guide in this, to be your coach. Send me a DM on Instagram, schedule a discovery call. I am here to help you, to help you uncover this, to help you connect with your higher self, to help you release yourself from the daily grind, from the frustration, from the feeling of like I don't have enough time to create the life that I desire. Now, if you are still feeling like, well, I'm confused, I'm unsure on what to do next. I hear you, I hear you, dr Reyes, but I still don't know what to do.

Speaker 1: 16:34

Listen to some of my past podcast episodes Episode 112, episode 114, episode 1-14, episode 1-16. They all touch on the three things you need in order to manifest and how to connect with yourself. All right, that's all I have for you today. Thank you for listening. Again, I'm here for you. I'm here to help you connect with your higher self. I'm here to help you create the life that you desire. I will talk to y'all on the next one.